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Is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

Dear Advice Girl,

There's a guy at school I've been crushing on forever. We’re friends, but I want to be more than that.

My friends says that it's lame to ask a guy out, and that you have to wait until he asks you out. Are they right?

Signed,
Pink

Dear Pink,

Are you friends, like, Donna Reed and June Cleaver? 'Cause anyone from 2008 would know that it's totally not lame for girls to ask out guys.

In fact, some guys (just like some girls) are so clueless, nervous or shy that if you don’t make a move, no one will.

Just casually invite him somewhere fun this weekend, or ask him to the next big school event. Then show up and see what happens.

It might sound scary, but it's what you've gotta do to go from Friends to More-Than-Friends.

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yea go and ak him out if u like him that much u really shouldnt give a s*** what other people thnk
anonymous

i think if u realy like him you should ask him out
akeema, 17, North York, ON

SHE'S RIGHT..
karen1205, 16, Houston, TX

i totally agree with the advice girl on this one...ask him out...it is not awkward. or lame. or wrong...it shows your independence as a WOman. go girl get yo man
friendliest_guy_eva, 19, Milton, FL

kool
loudmouth95, 14, Bronx, NY

i say..if u like the guy..make a move... its better than just sitting back a waiting on him
twiz_bryan, 16, Keyser, WV

u go 4 it ask him out girl
anonymous

Just ask him out already, who cares what they think is lame or cool! It's your choice!
widefield, 13, Fountain, CO

It could be a little akward and I've seen it go bad for others but if you really like him you should ask just in case he likes you back.
crazyfunchick21, 15, Acworth, GA

I agree with everyone! It's scary, but instead of thinking of the negative outcome, also think of the positive! (:
yeahokaylove, 14, Brick, NJ

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